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That rush of fear before you approach isn’t a sign you’re broken; it’s a sign you’re human. You’ve been taught to treat every interaction like a pass–fail exam, where one awkward moment proves you’re not enough. But connection isn’t a performance, it’s a shared experience. When you stop auditioning for approval and start inviting a moment together, everything softens—your shoulders, your voice, your expectations of yourself.

You don’t need perfect lines; you need honest presence. Walk up at a calm pace, breathe, and let your body language say, “I’m safe, I’m open, I’m here.” Ask something simple, grounded in what you both can see or share right now. Let silence happen. Let her reactions be information, not a verdict. If she isn’t interested, you’ve still done something courageous: you chose action over regret. That choice, repeated, is how fear slowly turns into quiet, unshakable confidence.