David McCallum is known as Ducky on “NCIS,” but at home, he is just grand-daddy, the amazing grandfather to eight grandchildren. The actor loves spending time with his grandkids together with his wife of 55 years, Katherine Carpenter, who never fails to impress the little ones.

Fan favorite “NCIS” star David McCallum is an outstanding actor in the entertainment industry with several on-screen credits under his name, but behind the scenes, he is a doting family man, husband, and grandfather of eight. His grandkids even have a special nickname for him.

Although it seems he has the perfect family now, it took heartbreak, divorce, and a crazy fiction-like storyline before he achieved happiness with his current wife, Katherine Carpenter.

David McCallum was previously married to fellow actress Jill Ireland. However, their union ended in divorce after a movie-like scenario happened in real life. While still married, McCallum’s “Great Escape” co-star, Charles Bronson, pursued Ireland. Their affair eventually blossomed into romance and ended with marriage.

Despite what happened, McCallum has no hard feelings for Bronson and still considers him a good friend. In fact, it was because of his ex-wife’s affair that he now lives in marital bliss with Carpenter. Still, the actor admitted to having a difficult time during the separation. “Not least because we had three children,” he said.

In 1965, McCallum met Carpenter during a photo shoot for his film, “Man from U.N.C.L.E.” Carpenter, a former model and interior designer, was eleven years his junior and then only 21. Still, the age difference was insignificant in their romance.

In 2015, he shared throwback photos fifty years apart – the day when he and Carpenter met and a more recent trip to the same location.

It only took a short time before they fell in love and debuted their relationship during his publicity tours around Asia and Australia. At that time, McCallum was still legally married to Ireland. In 1967, as soon as his divorce was finalized, McCallum proposed to Carpenter.

The couple has been married for 55 years and continues to fall in love anew every day. Although in a different line of work, Carpenter enjoys supporting her husband’s philanthropic efforts, such as aiding the US Marine Corps. In a previous interview with Closer Weekly, the actor gushed about his wife:

“Katherine and I are two halves of a whole. We work well together, and when problems come along, we solve them. The best thing about marriage is you find out what the other person wants and make [expletive] sure they get it.”

McCallum has expressed his love for his wife several times on the internet. In 2015, he shared throwback photos fifty years apart – the day when he and Carpenter met and a more recent trip to the same location.

The following year, he shared a photo of Carpenter laying flat on the ground to get a sniper’s shot. “I am married to a crack shot,” he said in his post. “Grandkids are most impressed.”

McCallum shares two children with Carpenter and three other kids with his first wife, Ireland. One of his children, Sophie McCallum, is a proud mother to three boys who often appear on her social media account.

What Is David McCallum Like as a Family Man?

There’s no denying McCallum has natural talent as an actor, but he is also skilled in many other things, including cooking and gardening. During a podcast interview, McCallum revealed he was fond of pronouncing Italian dishes correctly despite Americans pronouncing them otherwise.

McCallum’s book was nothing close to his famous show “NCIS,” although he started writing it around the same time he was in the studio.

He has also shared several photos of him whipping up dishes in the kitchen, including two years of preparing a turkey for his family during Thanksgiving. McCallum also shared a snap of making pasta from scratch in one of his Facebook photos. He has the right kitchen tools to aid him in creating different cuisines, including a pasta dough cutter.

Besides his life at home, McCallum is also active outdoors. He does pilates in the morning and, when possible, expands his knowledge of other cultures through his travels. He also sails a boat during good weather and sometimes goes fishing and plays golf.

As he got older, one of his most outstanding achievements was becoming an author at 68. McCallum wrote the novel “Once a Crooked Man,” which has since been published. “Writing a book is great because it gives you something to do,” he said. However, McCallum never expected to have such a career in his late 60s.

McCallum’s book was nothing close to his famous show “NCIS,” although he started writing it around the same time he was in the studio. He said of his book’s storyline:

“It is about Harry Murphy, an actor who lives in New York, who has a serendipitous moment and goes off to save someone’s life.”

However, his novel’s lead character soon realized his decision had several challenges. The rest of the book focuses on Murphy’s adventure as he continues his life.

McCallum was undoubtedly a man of many talents. He was even described as a “renaissance man” during one of his interviews after he recorded with Capitol Records in the ’60s.

His lifestyle made him reach the 80s with good health and happiness. His wife, Carpenter, is also a significant contributor to his well-being.

With his first wife, McCallum shared three adopted children, Paul, Jason, and Valentine. He later welcomed two biological kids, Sophie and Peter, with Carpenter.

Despite their age, McCallum and Carpenter keep the spark alive through dinner dates and quality time. Previously, the couple danced to ’40s classics for hours during a friend’s birthday party in Montecito. In 2017, they had an intimate dinner to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary.

McCallum, who has been actively posting snippets of his life on Facebook, shared photos from the celebrations with his wife, which he will always treasure.

In 2022, McCallum celebrated his 55th wedding anniversary with Carpenter, a milestone only a few in Hollywood can achieve. In his tribute to his wife, McCallum posted side-by-side pictures of the day they met and in recent years.

Who Are David McCallum’s Grandkids, and How Do They Spend Time Together?

Although McCallum keeps his personal life private, his children and grandchildren have made headlines. With his first wife, McCallum shared three adopted children, Paul, Jason, and Valentine. He later welcomed two biological kids, Sophie and Peter, with Carpenter.

Sadly, McCallum’s son, Jason, died in 1989 at 27. He was found unconscious in his Los Angeles apartment with no signs of foul play surrounding his death.

Of his kids, Valentine chose a career closest to his father’s job. He is a musical entertainer who worked with Loretta Lynn, Sheryl Crow, Lucinda Williams, and many more. Valentine is also a proud father to his daughter, Stella.

Valentine and his wife, Shelli, appear to have lived in marital bliss. He sometimes posts tributes to her on social media alongside photos of their biracial daughter.

His brother, Paul, also attempted to join the entertainment industry and had a few acting credits in the ’80s. However, he ultimately pursued a different path and became a studio photographer. Paul gave his father one granddaughter.

Sadly, McCallum’s son, Jason, died in 1989 at 27. He was found unconscious in his Los Angeles apartment with no signs of foul play surrounding his death. Jason was involved with substance abuse and entered rehab several times. Unfortunately, it was an addiction he couldn’t stop until the end.

Jason was unaware he was about to become a father during his passing. He and his girlfriend had a son, Tory, a few months after he expired. Jason’s tragedy was a painful event McCallum could never come to terms with. He said:

“At the same time, there’s a frustration that you couldn’t really have done anything about it, which makes it even worse.”

McCallum may not have had the power to prevent his son’s passing, as Ireland got full custody of all their children after their split. His only regret was being absent during the months before Jason’s death.

McCallum is also a proud grandfather to an Italian grandson. According to the actor, the young boy is skilled in memorizing lines like him. He even proudly shared a short clip of his grandson reciting a piece in front of an audience.

He also has three grandsons from his daughter, Sophie. Often, Sophie, a self-love advocate, posts photos with her three boys on social media, documenting their family activities and day-to-day lives.

Interestingly, McCallum calls his younger grandson Young Ducky, a tribute to his nickname derived from his on-screen character on “NCIS.”

McCallum’s other grandchildren sometimes appear on his social media posts, and based on photos, they all seem to have gorgeous blonde locks. His posts are often reserved for special occasions, but McCallum sometimes shares photos just for fun.

One of these memorable events was the anniversary of McCallum’s US citizenship. During the celebration, his grandchildren treated him to delicious baked goodies. McCallum was born in the UK and relocated to the US as he aged.

McCallum and Carpenter love spending time with their grandkids and try to make more room for them during free days. McCallum shared:

“They call me grand-daddy. We don’t like grandpa because it sounds old – and I’m not old, and some of them have the cheek to call me grand-ducky.”

Interestingly, McCallum calls his younger grandson Young Ducky, a tribute to his nickname derived from his on-screen character on “NCIS.”

In 2020, McCallum shared how two of his grandchildren helped him on set to “make up one of the bodies” by painting toes four years ago. However, due to the pandemic, his grandchildren had lived secluded in their homes. Still, they had the creativity to think of activities to keep them occupied.

McCallum has no regrets and believes he has a “magnificent life.” The actor said, “I can sit here for a week and talk to you about the past 82 years, and 99.9% will be wonderful and positive.”

McCallum admitted that he was amazed by what his grandkids have come up with on their own amidst a then-catastrophic world. Fortunately, it also allowed them time to spend focused on family.

Besides his social media posts, photos of McCallum and Carpenter’s grandchildren are posted on their children’s Facebook. Often, Sophie and Valentine share memorable moments with their children, documenting milestones for the world to see.

What Does David McCallum Think About His Life?

Indeed, McCallum has lived a long and fruitful life with many children and grandchildren. To tie his blessings together, he has a beautiful life with whom he spends every day living in marital bliss.

He is fortunate to have found success as an actor, playing his famous role as Dr. Donald “Ducky” Mallard in “NCIS” since 2013. However, McCallum has appeared in several other on-screen productions before that. His career started to bloom in the ’50s, following his role in “The Great Escape.”

McCallum’s other on-screen roles include “The Spy with My Face,” “Mosquito Squadron,” “Hauser’s Memory,” “She Waits,” “Colditz,” “The Invisible Man,” “Kidnapped,” “Sapphire & Steel,” “The Return of the Man from U.N.C.L.E.” The Fifteen Years Later Affair,” and many more.

While his skill in acting is natural, McCallum enhanced it when he studied at the Royal Academy of Dramatic Arts in London with Joan Collins. Besides acting together, they would also play fencing.

Looking back, McCallum has no regrets and believes he has a “magnificent life.” The actor said, “I can sit here for a week and talk to you about the past 82 years, and 99.9% will be wonderful and positive.”

The McCallum family continues to have a close relationship despite having different pursuits in life. As seen in photos, they come together to bond and celebrate milestones.